Need of the hour.

What are you? What do you want to become?

We have faced these questions since childhood.

What they mean is have you found your destiny?

What is the purpose of your life on this planet? Or rather,

What is your role in here among these millions ?

If you want to answer this question truthfully, you should have had your basic education whether in the field or school !
Because then only you can READ what is the basic program that is imprinted in your brain !

Once you find it out, you think about it, you concentrate on it, read more about it, think more about it. When you think more about it, that part of your brain develops more.
More neurons develop, their interconnections become faster, may be there are associated centers like imagination and creativity which makes you improvise novel methods in your field.

Now you have become a specialist!
And that's your role. That's your destiny. You are supposed to play your part well so that others are benefited by you!

But there are other centers in the brain. Eg. Centre for sexual thoughts!

If you keep on thinking about sex, view porns, intentionally date to have sex, keep on stimulating yourself, strip whoever is in front of you with your eyes; then you are becoming a sex maniac. Because if your role is not that of a male or female sex worker, you are diverting your thoughts from your basic program of the specialist that you should be in this world.

I just talked about sex because it is the most common problem faced by us humans. And there's more than abuse, under the tip of every ice-berg in every institution in every country!

How do we control unwanted thoughts?

First, we have to recognize what is wanted thought. That will be about the job that you love doing and all the topics related to it.

secondly, we have to continuously and carefully monitor the thoughts coming out from every centre of our brain, and analyze their usefulness, and delete them consciously, if they are unwanted.

Thirdly, we have to analyze what others are telling us, the input. This is very important because anyone can program our mind wrongly if we are unable to analyze what is being downloaded. And this is the most misused because majority of humans are not in a position to analyze because of lack of fundamental education or intelligence!
Although we should not be keeping them aside, let's do so for the time being to go deeper in.

If you are a doctor and you think too much about sex, will it reflect in your behavior? Will you be thinking of having sex with your beautiful colleagues, nurses, patients even if they would hate to even think about it with you?

If you notice a male/female interested in you how much would you advance? If you have too many sexual affairs, will your desire come down or yearn for more?

Indian culture is to follow abstinence from sex till marriage. And that's too much down the line.

Can you define moderation?
Every moment every thought that's coming in and coming out is to be monitored by you. All through your life, every moment!
That's what the sages achieved. Something called salvation.

Define your target ambition. Define your thought moderation. Then only you can achieve your destiny.

If you practise this, your life will have a major field in which you love to work, supported by the balanced pleasures and controlled aggressions.

The most difficult part is to have the antivirus program, that is, your awareness, monitoring your thoughts every moment, throughout your life!!!